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Oct 10, 2007 |
Myth: No orgasm means dissatisfaction
This statement is not always true. More than 30 percent of women do not experience orgasm from time to time, but they are convinced that you can make love without reaching the peak of pleasure. Many of them claim that they experience as much pleasure or even more during the lovemaking. However, in case you never experienced orgasm, this can really become a problem and you may need to discuss it with your partner.
Myth: You can have only one orgasm during the intercourse
Good news is that women are able to experience sequence of orgasms during the intercourse. This however, doesn't mean women really want more than one orgasm at one session. But when you in the mood for something hotter than one sizzling orgasm, then give yourself some minutes to rest and start all over again.
Myth: Vaginal orgasm is more powerful than clitoral
No matter what brings you to orgasm, all that can be said is that no one can tell if orgasm from clitoral stimulation is less enjoyable than from penetration. Some specialists say that there is only one orgasm - the one that comes from your brain. Just remember that there is a nocturnal orgasm which happens without any stimulation. Of course, some people would easier achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation while others will be faster with penetration either anal or vaginal.
Myth: The longer intercourse the better
There is no need to keep track of the time when having sex. Sex is not a marathon and time is not a sign of better performance. Of course, it's good when you have enough time to reach the big O and and enjoy sexual encounter in full, but probably the most important factor for reaching an orgasm is a right mood. If you are attuned to sexual pleasure you can expect orgasm quite soon.
Myth: Partners should learn to orgasm simultaneously
Many partners are convinced that only simultaneous orgasm brings intimacy and true feeling of satisfaction. But as soon as they try to engage in love play they make all efforts to synchronize their performance and often it results in total frustration. Why does it happen? The thing is that when you are concentrated on something besides sexual sensations during love play, you first of all lose a connection with your partner and no longer feel the drift of pleasure. Ask yourself- do you really need to experience orgasm at the same time your partner does or pleasure counts more than timing?
Myth: Orgasm with a partner is a real orgasm
Of course no one is going to underestimate the importance of good satisfying sexual relationships with your partner, but again your ability to experience orgasm with your partner is not always an indicator of your sexual well-being. Many women report having orgasm during masturbation only because they need direct clitoral stimulation they cannot have during the intercourse. You may not have enough experience to help you achieve orgasm with a partner but that doesn't mean that orgasms you achieve by yourself are not true. It's your body and only you can know what is best for your pleasure.
